Generosity And Connection
Sitting down to write today’s blog piece I was thinking about several concepts related to family business. Among these, the difficulty of choosing the right successor, the significance of shared family values, the importance of stewardship (the passing on of family assets—wealth, reputation, emotional well-being, spirituality—in better condition than when you received them.)
As I do at times, I turned to others for ideas. In this case I found what I was looking for in a blog by Seth Godin.
Godin’s article Bread and Book, is not intended to be a comment on family businesses. But it’s one of the best—and more tragic—stories I’ve seen of succession, family values and stewardship https://seths.blog/2019/10/bread-and-books/. It’s a story of world-famous baker Lionel Poilâne and how Godin and Poilâne met and became friends.
Describing what he learned from his time with Poilâne, Godin wrote: “Ideas, bread and books are all the same–they’re better when they’re shared. The posture of generosity and connection replaces a mindset of scarcity, and Lionel modeled this philosophy every day.” From his friendship with Poilâne Godin learned about the magical intersection between generosity and idiosyncrasy.
Tragically, Lionel Poilâne and his wife were killed in a helicopter crash, leaving behind two teenage daughters. It’s here that the story enters the realm of family business.
The elder daughter, Apollonia, immediately stepped up and took over the running of the bakery. She’s made a success of it, with no diminution of quality. And she’s recently published a book.
In Poilâne: The Secrets of the World-Famous Bread Bakery, Apollonia relates her family’s story. It begins with her grandfather and now flows to the fourth generation. She writes: “The seeds of this book were planted by my father and mother in my sister and me. They are seeds of passion, determination, and love for our craft. My sister, Athena, helped me germinate those seeds, and with the birth of her son, we now have another generation with whom to share our family story.”
Family values, succession, stewardship. It’s all there for the learning,